Joey is a Tantra facilitator and mentor known for his calm presence, grounded energy, and ability to create a safe space for others. He has a natural talent for making people feel seen and guiding them with clarity and practicality. His strength lies in explaining complex ideas in a down-to-earth way and helping others apply them in daily life.

Joey’s journey hasn’t always been easy. For years, he struggled with insecurity around intimacy and sexual performance. Experiences with premature ejaculation and past negative encounters left him feeling disconnected from his masculinity and afraid of intimacy. This lack of confidence affected not just his relationships, but also other areas of his life.

Tantra became his turning point. It helped him rebuild his self-worth, understand his own fears and desires, and feel more at ease in intimacy. Instead of stress and pressure, he found confidence and relaxation. By learning to be fully present and in control of his own energy, he transformed his experience of intimacy—moving from insecurity to a place of trust and connection.

Now, as a facilitator, he helps others do the same. His approach is clear, grounded, and focused on real-life integration. He works primarily with groups, creating spaces where people feel safe to explore, grow, and reconnect with themselves. A big part of his mission is supporting men who struggle with confidence in intimacy, helping them feel more secure in themselves and their relationships.

Together with his partner, Fieke Verhaegh, Joey facilitates Tantra workshops, singing circles, and breathwork sessions. Their relationship is a daily practice of conscious intimacy, emotional depth, and authenticity—something they love to share in their work.

Joey’s goal is simple: to help others reconnect with themselves, build confidence, and experience more fulfilling relationships.